Friday, March 27, 2009

Vote for any party but not for Congress

Dear all Indian Husbands and their Family Members,

Vote for any party, but not for Congress.

Nowadays more than 57000 Indian Husbands are ending their lives in suicide every year due to the anti-husband, anti-family and anti-child biased and lopsided marital laws like Section 498A / Domestic Violence Act / CRPC125 / Adultery law / four different maintenance laws, all passed by the Congress. The entire family of Husbands has been converted into a Free ATM machine and they are being treated worse than an animal in this country due to all biased and lopsided law and policy by the Congress party.

Inspite of The Honorable Supreme Court terming the Misuse of Section 498A as “Unleashing of a new Legal Terrorism on innocent husband’s family” and Domestic Violence Act as “one of the most clumsy drafted law”, the Congress led UPA government has not taken any corrective action and the entire family of husbands is suffering today because of that. 

Whether the allegations are true or false, it’s merely on the basis of the verbal allegation of the wife (read married woman), that the entire family of husbands including his mother, sister (again read married women) are thrown out of their house under the Domestic Violence Act. Through this Domestic Violence Act, the Congress party has incited a woman vs. woman war and the price is paid by Indian men. 

Just the wives need to say that, “I am anticipating Domestic Violence” from my partner (Men), be it a friend or any one and the man is thrown out of his own house and lands up in Railway Platform; as also the bank accounts will be frozen.

Now it is up to the accused to prove her allegations are wrong in the court and she need not prove anything as her verbal allegations are construed as evidence, since the Congress led UPA Government thinks that all the wives / Daughter-in-law are born in Raja Harish Chandra’s Family, and hence can’t lie. 

  • Do you know who has given wholesale free License to your wife to commit adultery and at the same time go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to abuse your age old parents and sisters and at the same time go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to throw out you and your old parents from their own home? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to kill your un-born child and go scot free? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to refuse to visit your own child once in a week at least? – Congress.
  • Do you know even a terrorist have right to stay in his own home, but Indian husbands do not have any right to stay in his own home , if wife demand the same under Domestic Violence act and who has made such a law ? – Congress.
  • Do you know who has given wholesale free license to your wife to beat, abuse, and refuse food to your child and you can’t even ask her a single question, as it will be termed as verbal abuse? – Congress.
  • Do you know if your wife demand 1000 rupees for her kitty party and you give 800, it is a crime by you as per law and who made such law? – Congress.

This is the state of the present Justice system in India and Gender Equality in India, a feat achieved by the Congress Government in the last 60 years. 

For a wife even adultery is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and tax free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/old father also can be put behind the bars under 498A or Domestic Violence Act. And such laws are made with the tax-payer’s hard-earned money, 82% of which comes from men.

Well educated, working and healthy women (read wives) are rushing to the courts to demand aristocratic maintenance from their husbands to maintain their lavish lifestyles, by leveling false allegations as is evident from court records and at the same time do not miss a chance (provided by the Congress led UPA Government) to file false criminal cases under Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act, mentioning that their husband is ill-treating them and demanding money from them. However, the wives themselves openly demand money as a legal extortion and blackmailing and the police, the media and the courts are mute spectators or at time active participants in squandering husband’s money. And all this drama happens under the nose of the Congress led UPA Government which sits on the abuse of Indian men, especially husbands and is hell bent on passing one after another anti-male extortionary laws.

On the contrary, if a husband is not able to earn money due to some reason or falls terminally ill, and his wife is earning money, yet he is not eligible for maintenance from his wife, irrespective of the fact that he had earned lacks of rupees and given to his wife prior to becoming disabled and such a man is told to either sell his body organs or go and commit suicide. Such a biased attitude is being meted out to Indian men under the Congress led UPA Government.

So the question arises: Is Indian Husband is a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives? As per Congress the answer is:  Yes.

It is pertinent to mention here that, presently a wife can claim maintenance from four different Laws, like Section 24 Hindu Marriage Act, Section 125 CrPC, Section 18 Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act and Domestic Violence act. This is abuse and wastage of resources for the Indian Judiciary System (which always cries foul of being overburdened), since for the same purpose, three to four different cases are filed in different courts sometimes across states. It not only wastes the Judiciary’s man Power, but is also a violation of Indian constitution, wherein it is clearly mentioned in Article 20, that for the same offence a person can’t be punished/tried more than once. Then why do we have four different maintenance cases against a Husband for the same alleged cause of action?

·  Crime Bureau data 2005: Married Men Suicide: 52k vs. Married Women Suicide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?

·  2006 Crime Bureau Data: Married Men Suicide: 55452 vs. Married Women Suicide: 29869.

·  2007 Crime Bureau Data: Married Men Suicide: 57593 vs. Married Women Suicide: 30064.

Will Our LAW Maker change the section 304B of the IPC related to dowry deaths to section 304C (Sowry Death) and Section 498A (harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harassment by wife)?

We have repeatedly requested the Congress led UPA Government by providing all the data and official statistics of suffering of Indian men in general and husbands in particular and demanded that all Gender Biased LAW should immediately be made crime based void of any assumption that women never lie and men are born as Criminals. "MEN/WOMEN" word to be replaced by word "PERSON" and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word "SPOUSE".

But it has fallen on deaf ears of the Congress led UPA Government and in return the Union minister for Women and Child Development makes the following derogatory statements against Indian men while being in office:

·         It’s turn to suffer the Indian men, as women suffered for long(Like as Muslim Kings had destroyed a lot of temple, so let’s demolish the entire Mosque in India).

·         Don’t trust Your Men; trust Condom in the name of reducing AIDS. (Forgetting the fact that the AIDS spreads by multiple partner sex and a condom is used for multiple partner sex, not for single partner sex, which we term as married couple)

·         It’s Diwali Gift to Indian women. (Within two weeks, four women sent behind the bars under first DV act case in Pune and one age old women left her own house as her daughter-in-law walk in her house with her all friends and parents) 

Readers may choose to vote for Congress and ensure that more and more suffering follows for Indian men. Since it’s not only Congress, but all political parties believe that increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members is termed as Social Service in the country since Indian Husbands and their family members cannot ensure their defeat or a reduction in their vote share. So making more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided law in the country is not going to harm them.

The Choice is with you and do not forget that only the crying baby gets the milk.

Congress government has converted the Indian Criminal Justice system into a wholesale free money earning business through Legal Extortion from Husbands and their family members.

Vote for any party, but not for congress and give a clear message that anti-husband, anti-men, anti-family and anti-child law and policy will not be accepted in this country by political party.

Disclaimer: These are totally writer’s personal views. Readers may have a different opinion. The name and place has been changed to protect the Person’s Identity.

 

2 comments:

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Pranav..... said...

Most of your comments seem like a hogwash and mass propaganda against women. I agree some laws are unequal, but if they were made equal, there would be massive abuse of women by men. We would revert back to the 18th century. The laws have been made keeping in mind socially unequal positions of men and women.
To cite your own example, such are the ethos of Indian society that if a man commits adultery he is mildly criticized; later everything is forgotten and he is welcomed back into the social circle. But if a woman commits adultery in Indian society, it is deemed preposterous and she risks being ostracized for life. In fact, even if she is raped, people blame her clothes or her walking alone on a street at night (which men do usually and normally; so why can't women do it without facing blame?). The majority of society shuns a woman who has been raped, and it becomes very difficult for her to marry.
Women also experience continuous and sustained sexual harassment whenever they step out of home ( I know this very well having worked with some organizations and seen it happen first hand). Society calls this "eve teasing" which betrays its acceptance of it.
So some "wise men" from your right-wing parties suggest it is better for a woman to stay at home, to go out at night with a male relative etc. Why don't you people try reforming male attitudes for a change? Don't women deserve as much social freedom as men?
The law has been made lopsided (in most cases) to counterbalance the effect of these severe social prejudices. Unfortunately it works in a detrimental way sometimes, but that cannot be helped unless people like you change their own attitudes of looking at women. Only when you yourself become egalitarian, can you justifiably protest these laws.
Also do you know another ("non-feminist" in your words) reason why the adultery law is lopsided? It is because India post independence has retained an age-old British definition that says that the wife is the responsibility of her husband. It is even implied that she is his "property" and therefore his "permission" must be sought by another man to have sex with her. Isn't this despicable?
I rest my case. I am a man too. However till today, I'm yet to experience sexual harassment from women in any way (though I'm not yet married). I have been harassed once by a presumably gay man in a Bombay local train, who tried to lightly molest me. Period.